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Our sponsored author · T.J. Colman

In her words, at last.

A memoir series built from the notes she kept through it all.

About the author

The survivor who wrote it down.

T.J. Colman is a survivor of a ten year marriage built on coercive control. Her memoir series has been written from her journal entries, emails, texts and court filings compiled over the last twenty plus years. The names were changed to protect the people in them. She now writes to inspire other women to tell their stories.

H.D. Publishing is sponsoring her debut series, A Light in the Dark, from the first draft to the printed book. It is the kind of story we exist to publish: a voice kept quiet for years, telling it straight.

Memoir and essays

The books

More books in the series are on the way. Buying links appear here as each one is released.

  • Cover of A Light in the Dark by T.J. Colman

    Memoir · Book OneAvailable now

    A Light in the Dark

    A Memoir of Motherhood, Divorce, and Starting Over

    T.J. Colman

    In 2007 a young mother wrote down the night she put a softball bat back in the closet and took her son to her parents’ house. Then she stayed eight more years. This is that story, told from the beginning.

    Content note: domestic abuse, coercive control and suicidal threats.

    Buy the paperback
  • Cover of Eternity in His Eyes by T.J. Colman

    Memoir · Book TwoComing soon

    Eternity in His Eyes

    Learning to Love the Reflection in the Mirror

    T.J. Colman

    A book about being seen for who you really are, and what that sentence cost: three sons learning a new name, a new license, a father who will not hug him.

    Content note: family rejection and separation from children.

  • Cover of Shattering the Silence by T.J. Colman

    Memoir · Book ThreeIn progress

    Shattering the Silence

    Written out of his own life. He wrote himself back in.

    T.J. Colman

    The long drive back north, and the sons coming home one by one. The story of a writer finding a voice after years of silence, and using it.

  • Cover of Letters to my sons by T.J. Colman: a woman writing a letter at a desk, a photo of three boys on the windowsill

    LettersComing soon

    Letters to my sons

    What I Would Tell You Over Coffee

    T.J. Colman

    Letters from a parent to three sons about the things worth knowing: life lessons, school and work, relationships, and what time, money and attention are really worth.

  • Cover of A Book of One’s Own by T.J. Colman

    Essays · with Virginia WoolfComing soon

    A Book of One’s Own

    Six answers to Virginia Woolf, a century later

    T.J. Colman

    Woolf’s six chapters of A Room of One’s Own, printed whole, each followed by an answer written a century later from the author’s own journals and letters.

If you need help now

You don’t have to wait for a book.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 (thehotline.org). Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988.

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